Welcome to Abundant Life Recovery Counseling • Coaching • Healing

Welcome to Abundant Life Recovery Counseling • Coaching • Healing

Imparting divine love, care and nonjudgmental treatment to those in need of counseling, coaching, inner healing 

or are in bondage to addiction.



Imparting divine love, care and nonjudgmental treatment to those in need of counseling, coaching, inner healing 

or are in bondage to addiction.




Live AN abundant life

Abundant Life Recovery exemplifies the very nature and essence of God’s divine love to the ​broken-hearted, those who need inner healing or are in bondage to any type of addiction.

Recovery is not only about drugs and alcohol. Recovery is about redemption by getting back to a life of abundance in every area. Recovery is about regaining possession of the parts of your life that are out of control or seem lost or stolen. 

I incorporate holistic spiritual treatment to provide safe, caring, nonjudgmental counseling, inner healing and coaching into the recovery process. Treating the whole person; spirit, soul, and body provides healing and restoration helping to establish peace and freedom to live a joyful, abundant life.​

About Me



Thanks for checking out my website. I'm Shifra Wylder. I'm witty, genuine and straight forward. I am a recovering legalist and perfectionist. I'm equally right & left brained. I'm also an artist and author. I enjoy travel, art, painting, writing, photography, music, dance and pretty much anything creative. I express my feelings through carefully selected emojis. I love to belly laugh & ugly cry and I am passionate about freedom. I like to think outside the box. I’m a bit of a rebel, usually with a cause. 

I get gratification out of facing my fears and daring greatly. As Brené Brown quotes, “I want to be in the arena. I want to be brave with my life. And when we make the choice to dare greatly, we sign up to get our asses kicked. We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can’t have both. Not at the same time.”



I grew up in a family who struggled with addictions. My father was a gambler & sex addict. My mother was an alcoholic & prescription meds addict. Both eventually became sober. Well, mom stopped drinking but kept her prescription meds to cope with her distressed life and physical pain. Under her circumstances, I fully understand. 

When I was 8 years old my oldest brother Steven was using drugs and committed suicide. In 2005 my brother Scott died ​of a heroin overdose. After the last tragic event, I thought to myself, even said out loud, "This didn't have to happen! Maybe if just one person was able to get through to them it may have made the difference between life or death."  Who knows? 



I care deeply about helping people heal from the bondages of any addiction as well as from trauma, grief, anxiety, depression, self-harm, eating disorders and self-limiting beliefs. I made the decision wholeheartedly to give hope to the hopeless, heal the broken-hearted and help set people free by becoming a counselor, coach and healer. I will be there for you every step of your journey. My goal is to help you grow from your struggles, heal from your pain, and move forward to where you want to be in your life.




I am here to create a safe, nonjudgmental space to help heal everyone, regardless of age, race, religion, gender, sexual preference, lifestyle, religious, nonreligious, meticulous moralists, loose-living immoralists, the defeated, the demoralized—whoever. If you're not a Christ follower, don't let all the Christian credentials scare you away ;)

Here are the creds... 

University of PhoenixBachelor of Science in Psychology 

Addiction Counselor Certification Board of California Certified Addictions Treatment Counselor

Breining Institute, College for the advanced study of addictive disorders  ​Registered Addiction Specialist (RAS)

Association of Christian Alcohol & Drug Counselors  Certified Substance Abuse Counselor (CSAC1)  Certified Drug, Alcohol & Addiction Counselor (CDAADC)​

Association of Christian Alcohol & Drug Counselors -Chaplaincy Corps 

Ordained & Licensed Chaplain

International Fellowship of Pastoral Counselors & Chaplains

Master Life Coach Recovery 

Coach Nutrition Coach 

Clinical Chaplain 

Crisis Counselor 

Clinical Pastoral Counselor 

Clinical Addictions Professional 

Suicide Intervention Specialist 

Clinical Addictions Intervention Specialist 

Domestic Violence Intervention Specialist 

Anger Management Intervention Specialist

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder Intervention Specialist ​

Family, Grief and Bereavement Intervention Specialist 

International Critical Incident Stress Foundation Group Crisis Intervention Individual Crisis Intervention and Peer Support

International Board of Christian Counselors/American Association of Christian Counselors 

Advanced Diploma, Board Certified Biblical Counselor (BCBC)

United Christian Services, Inc.  ​Ordained, Certified Christian Minister (CCM)